Can you call it love when there's term and condition?
You said "I could just love you if......"
IF.......(?)
seriously? Do you realize what did you just say?
Lo mending ke laut pacaran sama ikan kalo 'sayang' nya pake 'kalo'.
Well, we're all grown ups and we do 'love' with logic now. So I can't blame you if you made some 'if' word to your partner.
And that's why I don't like being adult. There's so much logic, reason, consideration, demand needed. I'm myself, forget how to think like I used to, but I remember life was so much simpler one-time ago, when I was younger.
Padahal, kita bisa aja biarin semuanya mengalir, apa yang terjadi, ya terjadilah, tanpa ada banyak tuntutan semua harus sesuai logika kita yang terbatas.
Maksudnya bukan berarti pasrah juga dari awal ya, tapi kalau udah dikasi, ya terima aja, gausah banyak protes dan koreksi. Meskipun kamu bilang kamu 'mengkritik' dengan alasan biar lebih baik, tapi kalau menurutku sih kamu gaakan bisa ngerubah orang dengan kritikan-kritikan kasarmu itu. Tetap aja, namanya kritik pasti bikin sakit hati you know? FYI, it change nothing. Dan itu berlaku juga buat perilaku kamu yang nunjukkin ga suka sama sifat pasanganmu. It breaking their heart, you don't know how much effort they did to make you happy. But you break their heart that easily.
Mungkin kata-kata bisa merubah orang untuk sementara, tapi perbuatan bisa merubah orang untuk selamanya.
Daripada kamu bilang "coba kamu lebih hati-hati/teliti/cerdas/mikir/*dan tuntutan-tuntutan lainnya*".
Tunjukin aja kalau kamu ikhlas, kamu suka, kamu senang, tanpa ada SYARAT (<- ugh I hateeeee that word and its meaning).
Dumb? You think its dumb, and stupid? So we have different perspective, because I called its Love.
If you think that kind of love is stupid and make no sense, it means you're selfish af *as fuck* egois banget.
Why are you so selfish? You blame other people because they can't treat you well. If you love them you won't yelling at them, telling that they're wrong. NO. you won't tell them wrong. You can't change them, change yourself to be more respect to other people!
Kalo emang ga suka sama sifatnya, dari awal ga usah sok manis. You stupid pemberi harapan palsu. You should love person with all their curves and all their edges, all their perfect imperfections (well said Mr. John Legend!) and if you don't love them like that, you really should go from their life and love(fck) yourself. (well said Justin, you refine word fuck to love, great)
Where can I found unconditional love apart from Allah the Most Gracious, Most Merciful...?
